Relationships
with strangers
Why
is it that some people get on with everyone, whilst others find
it difficult to communicate with anyone? In today's fast-moving
society, there's a high importance placed on interacting socially,
whether in organisations, associations, clubs, sports teams
or even at church. Therefore, for those of us who find it difficult
to form good friendships, it may be useful to examine why we
have trouble integrating with others.
Therapeutic
work can be undertaken for many things, for example, why it
is that a person can emotionally upset us, or an action that
person completes can aggravate us. Using Management Stress Centre
therapy we attempt to view aspects of your life that may cause
you difficulties in certain situations, or scenarios you could
improve upon. Causes could be, for example, a projection of
something you would like to do but were never allowed, or perhaps
something triggered by an individual or incident from your past
that creates some form of emotional charge.
Relationships
with our partners
Do
you find it difficult being in a relationship? Problems can
arise from many things, for example, responsibility, falling
in love, becoming too dependent on a partner, communication,
meeting each other's needs or coming to some form of compromise.
Clients
have come to us for many reasons, for example, constantly falling
in love of with an element of their persona that is not necessarily
good for the long term, an inability to get out of relationships
because you/they don't want to be on their own, opening up to
their new partner too quickly ( and not playing the game appropriately
), or difficulty in opening up to their new partner, not openly
cheering their partners' successes, holding a small by significant
trust issue or confidence that blocks relationships, difficulty
in being open and being honest, regularly finding a relationship
a bit too staid… Some of us go through quite similar thought
processes during relationships. You may well recognise some
of your own problems in the list.
If
you're married but not enjoying a loving relationship, good
sex life and good communication, problems can sometimes manifest
themselves through vehicles such as anger management, verbal
abuse, lack of warmth, inability to impress, long silences etc.
By addressing some of these issues we can eventually bring back
harmony and well- being to your relationship.
There
are many other circumstances that may require therapy, for example,
looking after a sick member of the family, shyness, taking responsibility,
bereavement, divorce, separation, the break-up of a relationship,
or changing situations. Using Management Stress Centre you can
significantly help you deal with these situations and enable
you to make a rapid transition of change.
We
have also helped clients in positively developing a new relationship
with the man or woman of their dreams. And we are personally
pleased by the results we have achieved.
